I am Vietnamese, and I did hate Republic of Vietnam. It ceased 6 years ago. Actually, it couldn’t be described as hate, Republic of Vietnam was like a taboo which I didn’t want to talk about and discuss about. I just thought that when I hadn’t wanted to talk about something meaning I hated it. And because I didn’t want to talk about it, I didn’t want to learn to know what it is, how it was and explain everything related to it. Every one around me did the same. I didn’t have chance to change my view.
Everything ceased when I went abroad. My new friends talked about it, they discussed what it was, why it collapsed, who Diem the president was, why he was assassinated, who Thieu was and so on. At first, those questions violated my taboos. I felt very unpleasant to listen to and to think of those questions. But I am a stubborn person, I wanted to win in every argument. I told them RV was bad, Diem and Thieu were the puppets of the US, but I couldn’t have explained in detail. I just knew so because I was taught so at school without evidences. They gave me their reasons, and evidences, and their perspectives on such. It was like the first time my eyes were forced to be opened to see directly the light. I felt offensive. Indeed, I am a scientist, I cannot suffer a feeling of getting rid of a truth. I learnt about RV and its history, from French view, the US view, Viet Communist’s view, the RV survivors’view, etc. And I found that I was fooled in school to hate RV and put everything relating to it in a taboo box.
I think most of Vietnamese experience the same. For the one who cannot get over the taboo box, hate RV and related things due to no reason, they do because they have been taught to do. Some one get over the box, but cannot through away their bias also get stuck. But many get a comprehensive perspective on that. Nowadays, I think I hate nothing. Every thing has its own reason, once we understand why, we acknowledge that it’s reasonable.